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In
Remembrance of our sister Sharifa Alkhateeb
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The
sunshine smile and the face bubbling with optimism and
determination are now gone. But her memory will remain
with us for a very long time. Our sister Sharifa Alkhateeb
has now gone to a better place, a place where she can
find some rest and peace after a lifetime of hard work
in the service of the disadvantaged and the vulnerable
in our community.
Sharifa dedicated her life to working against domestic
violence, and to helping families heal. She valiantly
fought for women’s rights from within the Muslim
community and struggled for a greater Muslim role in
the wider political debate. |
Sharifa was an activist, speaker, writer, and organizer. Her
contributions to the American Muslim community were phenomenal.
Sharifa was the President of the North American Council for
Muslim Women. She was also the President of the Muslim Educational
Council, a Mid-Atlantic non-profit organization educating
public school staff and administrators about Middle Eastern
Culture, Muslims, and Islam. She had an M.A. in Comparative
Religion, edited the Marmaduke Pickthall Translation of the
Qur’an, co-authored the Arab World Notebook used in
public school history classrooms nationwide. From 1993-1997,
Sharifa produced, wrote, and hosted a monthly television program
for Virginia’s Fairfax County Public Schools (FCPS)
called “Middle Eastern Parenting,” and was a diversity
trainer for FCPS for five years. She was the creator and Director
of the Peaceful Families Project – a nationwide survey
of domestic violence within the Muslim community, funded by
the U.S. Department of Justice, VAWO Office. She was a member
of the Muslim women’s delegation to the Beijing conference
on women.
Dedication like that takes its toll, and it did on Sharifa.
Despite the challenges that Muslim organizations face, especially
women organizations, she never hesitated to move forward.
Until recently, she was planning a women’s conference
to discuss issues dear to her heart. She had to cancel the
conference for health reasons. The letter she sent was heart-wrenching,
explaining her difficulties. We waited for the recovery, but
it was not to happen.
I spoke to Sharifa a couple of times
before she passed away. I always thought that this too will
pass, that she will soon be back on her feet serving her
community. I never expected to not see her dear face again.
She had a twinkle in her eyes, even as the going got rough.
She had ways of expressing her views that commanded attention
and respect. If Sharifa was in the room, you would know
it for sure. She was a natural self-made leader.
Several years ago, at the American
Assembly on Religion in Public Life, her comments were not
only incredibly valuable, but they were also humorous and
served to humanize the Muslim participants in that exclusive
gathering. She was the star of her group. As co-chair of
that assembly, I was quite relieved and proud to have her
there. Her contributions made an enormous difference.
KARAMAH women had talked to her recently
asking for her resume for an upcoming summit to which she
was invited. She said that she would provide an updated
resume which would include all her recent activities, but
that was one promise her health did not allow her to keep.
We
already miss our sister Sharifa, as a friend, as an outstanding
Muslim woman leader, and as a valuable member of our board
of advisers. May God rest her soul in peace and reward her
for all her service to our community. May God give her family
the strength to bear the loss and follow in her footsteps.
Azizah
al-Hibri
President and Founder
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